We All Have Bad Days When Travelling. And That’s Okay.

Michael Huxley walking Aruba desert

There is a definite perception, probably fuelled by the rose tinted lenses of social media, that when we are travelling everything is perfect, every moment is an Instagram moment and we are all perfectly happy all of the time. Well that isn’t true, life isn’t like that at all, but the important thing to remember is that no one should really expect it to be.

I have been travelling the world now for twenty years, I’ve been to all four corners of the planet and I like to think of myself as a pretty experienced traveller as a result. I can deal with things pretty well when they go wrong, adapt to changing situations and accept that things don’t always go to plan.

Accept when I don’t.

My latest realization of this absolute fact that sometimes bad days just happen – and I say latest because it is a realization that I have had before and sometimes need reminding of – was on a trip to Egypt.

I generally travel slowly, and like to get a mixture of my own personal time and work time, keeping the two completely separate as a way to achieve a work life balance. But I hadn’t been doing that.

Exploring the hidden Cairo

I had been in Egypt for a little while and had just got back to Cairo, spending a few days straight at Giza and attempting to work and get some writing done, and I was in general enjoying myself. I do genuinely love what I do.

But I was also tired. I wasn’t giving myself the time I needed to relax. As a result little things started to get to me. The things that I normally shrug off, the touts, the noise, the wifi stopping working for the 10th time in as many minutes, the endless disgusting stink of smoke everywhere, started to get to me. I became ratty, irritable.

And then came the taxi drivers.

Taxi drivers are in general the worst kind of people for travellers, and that is true all over the world. The non stop rip offs and cons, the endless overcharging and lies about the meter not working, it gets really tiresome really fast. And I could actually feel myself getting annoyed with them and by extension everyone else as well.

I snapped at a couple of touts. I remember actually chiding myself and purposely biting my tongue before responding to a few of them, reminding myself that I was in Cairo, in Egypt, I was living my childhood fantasy and I should be out here enjoying every single second.

Not that it was working, I was just getting increasingly fed up, and this culminated when a driver used the meter but demanded three times as much. I lost my usual sense of calm and escalated a situation that could have gone very badly since as a male traveller I am significantly more likely to have violence used against me and it was very clear this driver had no qualms about doing so.

Luckily I extracted myself without too much of a problem, but that situation stayed with me far longer than it should have done. I’m no stranger to bad situations and can normally shake them off but this kept niggling at me, annoying me, purposely chipping away at me for the rest of the afternoon. And I was pissed. Everything was annoying me. Every one was annoying me.

I tried to have a word with myself and tried to calm down.

Hell I was even annoying myself now!

I needed to take a step back. I needed to rest. And that is exactly what I did. I gave up any notion of work, social media or anything for the next few days and simply slept, read a book and relaxed, and it did me the world of good! I stopped chiding myself for that bad day and reminded myself that it was just a bad day, nothing more nothing less.

Because at the end of the day I am only human, and sometimes I get things wrong too. Sometimes I am tired, or I got out of the wrong side of the bed, or I haven’t had enough caffeine yet or am simply having a bad day. And everyone, everywhere has bad days from time to time.

Michael Huxley Dashur Egypt

It can be so easy to forget that whilst we are off having the adventure of our lifetimes, travelling the world and ticking off endless items on our bucket lists, that there will still be things that go wrong. There will still be those moments when all you want to do is throw your head into a pillow and wish the entire world will go away.

But that’s okay. It’s life. You are only human.

Sometimes it is really important to remember that even when we are surrounded by awesome things or doing things many people can only ever dream of, we can still just feel down, we can still get tired and not feel 100%.

Sometimes it is important to remember to take a step back, recognise that fact and just deal with it. Take the time you need to get yourself back to normal, have a nap, go to the gym, hydrate yourself and rest, whatever it may be that you need to do, just do. Then you can get back to living in the present and enjoying the amazing places you are travelling to.

Because everyone has bad days, you will too, but that is completely normal. Tomorrow is a new day and you can get back to enjoying your travels again.

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Michael Huxley is a published author, freelance travel writer and founder of Bemused Backpacker. He is also a charge nurse by vocation with an interest in emergency nursing and travel medicine, but his real passion is travel. Since finding his wanderlust a decade ago in South East Asia, he has bounced from one end of the planet to another and has no intention of slowing down.

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12 comments on “We All Have Bad Days When Travelling. And That’s Okay.
  1. Nisha says:

    This is a brilliant reminder that every traveller (or potential traveller) should read! The ‘perfect trip’ doesn’t exist and clinging onto that notion is what leads to disappointment.

  2. John says:

    This!! Exactly! It is such a normal part of everyones travel experience but it feels like no one ever really talks about it. Everyone feels like this. I have had days where I have lost my rag at the taxi drivers in KL or Bangkok, or the vendors in well, anywhere. The important thing to remember is that you will get over it. You will calm down. Those feelings are just temporary. However long it is, acknowledge those feelings, get them out of your system and then carry on feeling awesome again because you are in an amazing place doing amazing things and you worked really hard to get where you are.

  3. Maggie and Richard says:

    It all sounds so familiar. It’s an incredible time, seeing new things, meeting new people, but it’s so tiring and you just want something familiar. And a rest. Great post, thanks for sharing!

  4. Amazing! You are so right, it is so important to not think everything should be perfect all of the time and remember that we do get tired and can get in a bad mood and can just have a bad day too!

  5. Julie says:

    I think too many people hold themselves up to impossible Instagram ‘everything is always perfect’ standards and it just doesn’t work that way.

  6. Rob says:

    Well said! I think every traveller needs to be reminded of this from time to time

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