To see the true beauty of Egypt and her people, you have to get away from the packaged resorts and travel independently. Slow down, be a little spontaneous, take the time to see it properly, let Egypt show herself to you and spend some time with her people away from the resorts. You will not regret it.
Egyptians are in general one of the warmest, most welcoming and friendliest of people I have ever met, and one of the true joys of visiting this ancient and fascinating country is getting to spend time with her people. Far too many tourists miss out on this heartwarming natural resource by rushing around the must see sights on package deals, arguing with the touts and then heading back to the pool in Sharm on their air conditioned coaches.
This sterilised and unrealistic snapshot of Egypt not only makes tourists miss out on a wonderful country, but some of the most genuinely friendly people on the planet too, and for a traveller that is an absolute crime.
‘English?’ A young man looked up at me expectantly, it was more of a statement than a question. He had sat next to me on the train from Cairo to Alexandria and I looked up from my book and nodded in response. He seemed pleasantly surprised.
‘I love travelling on the train.’ The young man exclaimed.
‘Why’s that?’ I asked, closing my book and smiling slightly at the size of his grin.
‘You meet so many different people!’ He stated with absolute conviction as if it was a universal truth, before he gave me his name and his hand offered out in friendship.
‘I guess you do.’
What followed was a conversation that was to last for the rest of the journey to Alexandria’s Misr train station, a conversation that saw us exchange stories about our families and our respective lives, discuss politics and religion and share a light lunch of snacks we had both bought for the journey.
I know what you are thinking, but this was not a prelude to a scam. I consider myself pretty worldly and able to spot one most of the time. But the only thing this young man took from me was a good conversation during the time spent on our journey, and our mutually shared lunch of light snacks.
It was a pattern that was to be repeated endlessly throughout my time in Egypt and was absolutely testament to the Egyptian’s reputation as friendly and ebullient people. The problem with this in my opinion is that so many tourists just don’t see this.
All the vast majority of tourists see is the media headlines of terrorism and unrest. All they see is Egypt’s reputation as being dangerous to all tourists. All they see is rumour, lies and scaremongering. And this is despite the absolute majority of them never even having been to the country, or if they have been, barely exploring it beyond the air conditioned walls of their resort in Sharm El Sheik.
One of my favourite evenings in Egypt was spent on the corniche in Alexandria, a waterfront promenade where it seems almost every Alexandrian gathers in the evening as the temperature cools and the sun goes down. Families spread out along the waterfront with small picnics and street stalls selling cheap food and aromatic roasted nuts ply their trade. I was sat alone enjoying the sunset when a young girl ran up to me, handed me a cup of juice and pointed to her family who were beckoning me over. They were inviting me – a stranger – to share their picnic.
If that isn’t the definition of friendly I don’t know what is. And this was not an isolated incident in my time in this ancient country.
Tourists generally just spend their time being herded around the major sites like sheep, fresh from their air conditioned coaches from Sharm, their only contact with locals are those who are in the tourism trade and the touts and hawkers who immediately pounce on them like vultures. I can get why this can put a few people off to an extent. Dealing with endless touts is bloody tiresome, and even independent travellers like me – for there are a few in Egypt – who as a rule tend to spend less time with the tourist crowds and more time with locals, cannot escape their onslaught completely.
But there really is no reason to judge all of Egypt on this single experience.
The major tourist sites in Egypt are major tourist sites for a reason. They are universally popular and famous across the world, they have been for thousands of years. Sites like the Pyramids of Giza, the Sphinx, the Valley of the Kings, Abu Simbel, all of these and more are the reason many people visit Egypt in the first place, so when tourists descend on them at well rehearsed and scheduled times, of course those whose livelihoods depend on tourism are going to be there en masse. They are there because the tourists are there.
I’m not saying don’t visit those sites, they are after all probably a good portion of the reason you have come here, but they aren’t all Egypt has to offer. Spend some time exploring lesser known sites too. Take your time in doing so and simply ‘be’ in Egypt instead of ‘doing’ it.
You will see a whole other side to Egypt this way. An Egypt that is more than just it’s tourist sites, and you will see that not every Egyptian is out to scam tourists.
When your only experience of a people tends to be of mercenary hordes descending on you with armfuls of overpriced touristy crap or chasing you down the street shouting ‘sir, sir, taxi?’ Then of course your opinion is going to be coloured by those experiences. It’s only natural.
And so many tourists leave Egypt without truly experiencing the true warmth and friendliness of the everyday Egyptian, and that is a huge shame.
All it takes is a little effort to get away from the tourism machine that runs throughout Egypt a little bit. By travelling independently through the country you can still see all the major sites and attractions that will have no doubt fuelled your desire to visit in the first place, but you will also see a side to this magnificent country that most tourists never do.
By staying in downtown Cairo instead of Sharm el Sheik, or Alexandria instead of Hurghada you will see local Egyptians going about their daily business, by taking your time and exploring ancient sites more slowly, you will get to see them in a more quiet and serene setting as the organised tours head back to their cruise ships and the touts disperse and regroup for the next lot to come through.
By travelling independently and making an effort to know and understand Egyptian culture, by living among them for a short while instead of merely hopping from tourist site to tourist site, I gained unforgettable experiences of Egyptian hospitality and friendliness far beyond the simple travel trope of friendly hotel staff.
I saw a very real side to Egypt. And you can too.
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Ive dreamt of going to Egypt for years, it sounds like you had a perfect trip!
I did, every time I have been to Egypt I have fallen in love with the place all over again.
I have wanted to visit Egypt for a long time but am worried about safety. Isn’t being in a group with an armed guard better?
What? No! I don’t know what or who you have been listening to but you don’t need an armed guard at all. You don’t even need a group. Egypt is safe and easy to travel through!
I am so happy that you enjoyed my country, tourists are very welcome here and we are happy to show off our country.
I did notice that when I was there Asim! Thanks for commenting.
This really resonated with me because I have to admit I have been one of those people who have been put off seeing more of Egypt because of all the aggressive touts on my last (admittedly very short) visit, or to be completely fair probably my perception of them being aggressive. Maybe I’ll have to give it another chance.
Thank you so much, you really should visit Egypt again! It is an amazing country.
Great post, i also dont undersatdn why people do all of their traveling in the big tour buses. we have this problem in the outback of australia. People just go to uluru walk around ,take a photos and in 30 miutes their back on the bus. I belive you have to be in a place for longet than that to really see it and experince it .
Thank you very much You are right this happens everywhere and it never fails to make me smile when I see it. Usually because I’ve had the place pretty much to myself for hours before the tourist hordes come and pack themselves in, and then usually have it to myself again afterwards!