No One Wishes They Travelled Less When They Die.

Mark Twain Sail Away From Safe Harbour

As a nurse I have seen a lot of people reach the end of their lives, some far too young, and I have seen far too many of them look back with regret and say ‘I wish I had’. Don’t be one of those people. Life really is too short. If you want to travel the world, do it now.

The world is full of people who have pursued a life filled with adventure, who have travelled the world and pushed the limits of their own mind and body to achieve truly astounding feats. They have seen the world, conquered mountains, traversed entire oceans and overcome challenges that seemingly elevate them above mere mortals to the realms of godhood.

Like these demigods of humanity, there are some people out there who fill every single day of their lives – no matter how long or short – with adventure. They push their limits and constantly strive to see new things, be in new places, experience new things!

Yet most people just sit in front of the TV day after day wishing they could do that.

“There is nothing worse than having dreams of world travel and not following them.”

They just sit and vegetate, going to work day after day in a job they couldn’t care less about to pay bills they hate paying to live a life that barely has any meaning. What is the point?

There’s nothing wrong with living a settled life with a house, bills and the two point four kids and a picket fence if that is your dream. If that is what makes you truly happy then all power to you and I’m truly happy for you. Really.

But for those of you who have other aspirations, for those of you who sit in your little cubicle or fight falling asleep on the morning commute and dream of something bigger, something grander and do nothing about it, then that is tantamount to slow suicide my friends.

There is nothing worse than having dreams of world travel and not following them.  It’s like my favourite quote says, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than those you did do.  I have talked quite a lot in the past about that famous quote by Mark Twain. It is my favourite quote and one that I personally try to live my life by. What a lot of people don’t know is why it is my favourite quote.

It is because I have seen what happens when people don’t follow it.

You see, I’m a nurse, and I have watched a lot of people die. Some at the end of a long life, many others in their prime, and some who barely had a chance to see what this life could offer them. It’s a horrible truth, but there it is.

As a nurse I know first hand that none of us know how long we have got on this earth. I know for a fact that those tired old clichés are true. Life is far too short. It is far too fragile. Far too short and fragile to just waste not following your dreams.

I have seen with my own eyes far too many lives cut tragically short and I have seen far too many people reach the end and say ‘I wish I had’.

“Everyone always thinks there is enough time, more time, until it runs out.”

Impending death tends to bring a clarity of thought that rarely happens beforehand. When people see that they are reaching the end of their lives all those unfulfilled dreams are laid out in front of them like an eternal to do list. A bucket list that is destined to never be crossed off.

Health – life – is a gift that is far too easily squandered on the minutia of life. It is far too easy to spend a few extra hours at work. Far too easy to waste hours and days on social media or in front of the TV. Far too easy to concentrate on your own inconsequential concerns instead of concentrating on what is truly important. Far too easy to push those travel dreams aside and say there is always next year. Far too easy to give into fear and doubt instead of being courageous and spending every minute of every day reaching their true potential and following their dreams.

Everyone always thinks there is enough time, more time, until it runs out.

Life is an adventure Bear Grylls

Don’t waste your life, I beg you.

If your dream is to travel and see the world then do it! Live your dream! Go now! What are you waiting for? Permission? You don’t need it! A planned itinerary? You don’t need one! Someone to go with you? You don’t need them!

Because here is the real secret that the travel industry won’t tell you, you don’t need any of that! Pick a place you want to see, and go there. It is that simple. No excuses.

Happiness is a choice. It really is. And if travelling the world is what will make you happy then do it. You are the only one who can make that happen. Most people only realise that fact at the end, when it is far too late to do anything about it.

Don’t be one of those people.

Only you can make the decision to go out there and grab the life that you want! No one else can do it for you. If you want that life filled with adventure, if you want to spend your life travelling the world, hopping from island to island or exploring ancient temples and new cultures, then it is you who has to make that decision. It is you that has to get off your backside, get that ticket and go!

Make sure that when you do get to the end of the line and you look back on your life, the flashbacks are worth watching!

What do you think? Did you enjoy this article? I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below or please join in the discussion on my Facebook or Twitter pages on this important topic, and please feel free to share it with any or all of the social media buttons and spread the word.

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Michael Huxley is a published author, freelance travel writer and founder of Bemused Backpacker. He is also a charge nurse by vocation with an interest in emergency nursing and travel medicine, but his real passion is travel. Since finding his wanderlust a decade ago in South East Asia, he has bounced from one end of the planet to another and has no intention of slowing down.

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16 comments on “No One Wishes They Travelled Less When They Die.
  1. Tony Chan says:

    Your post could not have come at a better time! I’m in the final 4 months before a leave for a 13 month RTW trip. I’ve been planning it for the past 2 years. Reading, researching, dreaming has been a lot of fun. Now, however, it’s becoming more and more real. The date is fast approaching. I see myself leaving all my friends and family, spending the money I’ve saved up for the past year, being on my own, it’s becoming scary.

    I think to myself, is this dream too big for me? Did I bite off more then I can chew? Then I think, I can still back out… After reading this, I give my head a shake! I remember why I made this decision, why I started in the first place. I’ll never live with myself if I don’t follow through.

    Thanks for all you to Michael! It doesn’t go unnoticed!

    • Thank you Tony, the part just before you actually leave is really exciting! Enjoy it, don’t be scared of it! I’m glad this article gave you that reminder though, because believe me you will never regret taking this time for yourself. Have a great time, and make sure you let me know how you get on out there? Maybe I’ll see you on the road somewhere. 🙂

  2. Kate says:

    Wow, so true. Sometimes it’s so easy to forget that.

  3. Ayla says:

    From one demigod to another 😉 I totally agree! If you want to do something then you should just do it. Life is way too short and we have to make the most of every single day we have. I may have a full time job that isn’t exactly the most amazing job in the world but I fill all my spare time with adventure, travel and fun and I love my life! In fact I probably do too much because I hardly get enough sleep or downtime. Is there such a thing as having too much fun?!

    • Never! There’s such a thing as too much work, but fun and adventure? Not a chance! ;D Even full time jobs aren’t a barrier to living life to it’s fullest and you are an awesome example of that Ayla! Thanks for the comment. 🙂

  4. thegrownupgapyear says:

    This is exactly why I decided to take a gap year in the last year of my 20s. I thought to myself: ‘What am I going to remember more, another year sat at my desk or a year travelling around the world?’ It was the best decision I have ever made!

  5. wayfaringcanuck says:

    I think I’ve probably said this in 99% of my previous comments to you, but you just have this knack for taking the thoughts I’ve been thinking lately and putting them into oh-so-elegant words. Well written!

    Sometimes I just want to go up to all of those people sitting in front of the TV wishing they could do something different — I know quite a few of those people — and just give ’em a shake. You CAN do it! Priorities, determination. That’s all it takes.

  6. Fabio says:

    This article is painfully true. I received a massive shock a few months ago where I learnt how fragile life is, I knew from then I had to get out and “live” before it was too late. I’m now out travelling and it’s helped me so much. Great article.

  7. alicesgapyearadventures says:

    So, so, so true! I don’t envy you your job, I really don’t know how you can do it. It must really bring it home seeing things like that just how important it is to live your life while you can. Amazing post as always!

  8. Michelle says:

    What a great post. You are completely right of course!

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