Don’t leave your gap year plans too long, tomorrow may never come and by then it may be too late.
As a nurse I have seen a lot of people reach the end of their lives. Some of them naturally at the end of a long life, some far too young after a long illness or sudden accident, and I have seen far too many of them look back with regret and say ‘I wish I had’.
I have seen those who reach the end of a long life and regret not having taken the opportunities to see the world and follow their dreams, and I have seen those who die without ever getting the chance to.
Don’t be one of those people.
Life really is too short. If you want to travel the world, do it now.
The world is full of people who have pursued a life filled with adventure, who have travelled the world and pushed the limits of their own mind and body to achieve truly astounding feats. They have seen the world, conquered mountains, traversed entire oceans and overcome challenges that seemingly elevate them above mere mortals to the realms of godhood.
There is nothing worse than having dreams of world travel and not following them.
Like these demigods of humanity, there are some people out there who fill every single day of their lives – no matter how long or short – with adventure. They push their limits and constantly strive to see new things, be in new places, experience new things!
Yet most people just sit in front of the TV day after day wishing they could do that.
Most people just sit and vegetate, going to work day after day in a job they couldn’t care less about to pay bills they hate paying to live a life that barely has any meaning. What is the point?
There’s nothing wrong with living a settled life with a house, bills and the two point four kids and a picket fence if that is your dream. If that is what makes you truly happy then all power to you and I’m truly happy for you. Really.
But for those of you who have other aspirations, for those of you who sit in your little cubicle or fight falling asleep on the morning commute and dream of something bigger, something grander and do nothing about it, then that is tantamount to slow suicide my friends.
There is nothing worse than having dreams of world travel and not following them. It’s like my favourite quote; you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than those you did do.
I have talked quite a lot in the past about that famous quote by Mark Twain. It is my favourite quote and one that I personally try to live my life by. What a lot of people don’t know is why it is my favourite quote.
It is because I have seen what happens when people don’t follow it.
You see, I’m a nurse, and I have watched a lot of people die. Some at the end of a long life, many others in their prime, and some who barely had a chance to see what this life could offer them. It’s a horrible truth, but there it is.
As a nurse I know first hand that none of us know how long we have got on this earth. I know for a fact that those tired old clichés are true. Life is far too short. It is far too fragile. Far too short and fragile to just waste not following your dreams.
I have seen with my own eyes far too many lives cut tragically short and I have seen far too many people reach the end and say ‘I wish I had’.
Everyone always thinks there is enough time, more time, until it runs out.
Impending death tends to bring a clarity of thought that rarely happens beforehand. When people see that they are reaching the end of their lives all those unfulfilled dreams are laid out in front of them like an eternal to do list. A bucket list that is destined to never be crossed off.
Health – life – is a gift that is far too easily squandered on the minutia of life. It is far too easy to spend a few extra hours at work. Far too easy to waste hours and days on social media or in front of the TV. Far too easy to concentrate on your own inconsequential concerns instead of concentrating on what is truly important. Far too easy to push those travel dreams aside and say there is always next year. Far too easy to give into fear and doubt instead of being courageous and spending every minute of every day reaching their true potential and following their dreams.
Don’t waste your life, I beg you.
If your dream is to travel and see the world then do it! Live your dream! Go now! What are you waiting for? Permission? You don’t need it! A planned itinerary? You don’t need one! Someone to go with you? You don’t need them!
Because here is the real secret that the travel industry won’t tell you, you don’t need any of that! Pick a place you want to see, and go there. It is that simple. No excuses.
Happiness is a choice. It really is. And if travelling the world is what will make you happy then do it. You are the only one who can make that happen. Most people only realise that fact at the end, when it is far too late to do anything about it.
Don’t be one of those people.
Only you can make the decision to go out there and grab the life that you want! No one else can do it for you. If you want that life filled with adventure, if you want to spend your life travelling the world, hopping from island to island or exploring ancient temples and new cultures, then it is you who has to make that decision. It is you that has to get off your backside, get that ticket and go!
When you do get to the end of the line and you look back on your life, make sure the flashbacks are worth watching!
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