Solo travel can be intimidating for many first time backpackers, but it really doesn’t have to be. Having the courage to take that first step with show you just how awesome solo travel can be.
Travelling solo is an incredible experience, and is one that every traveller and backpacker should experience at least once in their lifetime. I don’t always travel solo nowadays but I do still occasionally head off on my own to various corners of the world, and the majority of my long term and short term trips over the last fifteen years or so have been solo ones.
They haven’t all gone smoothly of course, I’ve had downs as well as ups, but all in all each and every solo adventure I have had has been awesome.
Of course I’ve heard all the criticism and disapproving comments over the years with friends, family and even general acquaintances alike all uniting in their unified belief that I have gone insane. I mean why in hell would I go alone? Isn’t it dangerous? Aren’t I scared? Won’t I be lonely? What is wrong with me?
The thing is, I absolutely love it! Don’t get me wrong, travelling with a partner or a friend can be a great experience too, but you shouldn’t dismiss the idea of travel just because you have no one to go with.
‘Travel only with thy equals or thy betters; if there are none, travel alone’. The Dhammapada.
Too many people listen to the naysayers right from the start and get it into their heads that solo travel is unsafe, boring or lonely, that they should stay at home because the world is too dangerous and no one loves them enough to go with them. This is ridiculous. Do you really want to cancel your trip of a lifetime because your BFF will miss her boyfriend too much (who she’ll probably break up with in a month anyway!) Or all your mates say they are skint? Of course you don’t!
Seriously though, none of the negative connotations of solo travel are true. It isn’t perfect by any means but it is in no way more dangerous to travel alone. It isn’t scary, or frightening, and it certainly isn’t lonely or boring. If your dream is to travel the world, then don’t let the fact that you have no one to go with you stop you from doing so!
Because if you do, if you listen to the naysayers and don’t take the chance to travel alone then you will miss out on all the positive aspects of solo travel, and once you have landed in your destination and acclimatised to your new surroundings, you may even find that you prefer travelling this way!
So what exactly are the benefits to solo travel?
You can do what you want, when you want.
Yes this is selfish, yes this is self indulgent, but so what? Who cares? You are on your own, that is the point! Your entire trip can be focused around you, what you want to do, what you like. No one else has any say or input in it.
And that brings with it an amazing sense of freedom.
Do you want to change your plans half way through your trip? Then what’s stopping you?
Have you found a tropical island that you like and want to stay on it for a lot longer than you planned? Well do it!
Want to eat a third lunch because there is just so much choice at the food court? Do it! No one will judge you!
Fancy doing that week long PADI course or staying for a few days in a retreat to do some Yoga and try not to giggle at the one at the back who keeps farting? Then do that too!
The world really is your oyster!
When travelling solo you really can just do whatever takes your fancy. Every single day can be filled with things that interest you. You don’t have to compromise your plans or miss out on what you want to do because your travel buddy is whining they don’t want to do that or they want to do something else instead. You have no one to please but yourself, and yes that may seem self-centred but who gives a damn? It’s also really liberating!
You will never be lonely.
This is one of the big worries many people have when they contemplate solo travel, and that is understandable to an extent but it is also almost completely unfounded. Thousands of people travel solo every single day, and odds are you will bump into a few of them on your own travels!
It is really common to meet new friends on the road, either on an organised trek or by sheer chance. Other travellers and backpackers always end up congregating in transit stations, long distance coaches or overnight trains, hostels or backpacker bars, and all it takes to meet them is a little bit of confidence and that amazing little word ‘hello’.
Some backpackers end up spending days or even longer together as they click and decide to travel in the same direction before eventually parting ways again, other times a chance encounter may lead to nothing more than an interesting conversation on a long coach journey or in a hostel dorm or a good night out together. The point is you will never be alone, and the best part is you can have the best of both worlds! You can enjoy the benefits of travelling solo, and have company when and if you want it. It’s your choice!
You will become much more self confident and self reliant.
By being forced out of your comfort zone and having to deal with unexpected events and unpredictable experiences, you will learn a lot about yourself and how tough and resilient you really are.
When travelling solo you will come to know yourself intimately whether you want to or not. You won’t need to ask yourself what you would do in a tight spot, or what type of person you are when things happen and you have to deal with them, you will know because you will have been there and done it.
Because when you are on your gap year or travelling the world things will inevitably go wrong, from tiny annoyances such as transport delays or your mosquito net developing a tear in the jungle, to major hiccups like your bus breaking down in the middle of a desert or even worse.
You learn very quickly that it is how you deal with these incidents is what matters, and how you overcome these challenges is what helps build and shape your character.
You really don’t know what you are capable of doing until you do it, and solo travel builds your self confidence and self reliance to the point that you know intrinsically that you can handle anything life throws at you.
Solo travel will give you the experience, the self understanding and the self confidence to know that even when you get back home, the experience and knowledge you have gained when backpacking can be applied to any situation. In short, backpacking solo will make you a better, more rounded and more confident person.
Yes! It is absolutely safe to travel alone!
The world in general is a pretty safe place! Travelling solo through it is generally safe! I get really frustrated at the assumption that solo travel is too dangerous. So frustrated in fact that I really don’t know enough pejoratives to express it. Because solo travel is not dangerous! At all!
There is so much misinformation and unnecessary fear about travelling the world, but the fact of the matter is the highest crime rates are in the places that most backpackers actually come from! The USA and UK in particular. So if you want to go on statistics alone you are actually technically safer travelling the world!
It is remiss to say that there aren’t risks out there, of course there are, just as there are risks to your safety and security at home there are risks when you are travelling too, but it is extremely important to put them in perspective. Statistically the chances of becoming the victim of any crime when travelling are relatively low, and with the right knowledge, preparation and precautions you can take steps to reduce your individual risk even more.
And yes, that goes for women travellers too!
Despite what the media, society, and often other women too would have you believe, the world isn’t any more dangerous to travel solo through just because you are a woman. Like everything it is all about the individual risk management and precautions you take as a woman that will reduce your own personal risk.
You meet more locals and see more of the culture.
Okay, this isn’t wholly true. Backpackers who are travelling with friends or partners can just as easily do this, but quite frankly when you are travelling with someone you can sometimes be quite insular without even realising it.
It’s not really a bad thing per se, it is just human nature to stick more to your companions company.
But travelling solo removes that safety net of your friends or partner, you no longer have that comfort zone of travelling within a group, so you can often make much more of an effort to interact with the locals and immerse yourself in the culture of the place you are visiting. The benefits of which should be self explanatory really.
So if travelling is your dream, if you are feeling homesick for somewhere you have never been, if you want to go backpacking but you have no one to go with, then go alone! Travel solo! You will not regret it, and you may even find you prefer it!
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